We're foregoing a traditional bachelorette or bachelor party and instead having all of our friends party with us for the day on a catamaran cruise. Family members can explore Sitges/Barcelona or relax before the big day.

For the welcome dinner, think white casual beach wear. For the ceremony and reception, our dress code is Garden Formal. Color and fun patterns are encouraged! Midi or long dresses, and summer suits (lightweight, breathable fabric) are perfect. We've provided some inspiration at the bottom of the page :) Please note: parts of the venue include lawns and stone paths, so block heels or wedges are recommended.

We kindly ask that guests refrain from using phones or cameras during the ceremony. We want everyone to be fully present with us in the moment, and we’ll have professional photographers capturing everything. We can’t wait to share those photos with you afterward!

We’ve carefully addressed invitations to include who is invited. If you’re unsure whether your invitation includes a plus-one, please check your mailed invitation or your RSVP form on the website.

Children of our friends and family are welcome to join in on the celebration. Please reach out to us if you would like babysitting arrangements for the wedding day.

Please RSVP directly through this website by the date listed on your invitation. You’ll be able to confirm attendance for each event, note dietary restrictions, and share travel details.

Yes. Transportation will be provided to and from Xalet del Nin on the wedding day for all guests staying in or near Sitges. Details and pickup times will be shared closer to the date.

May on the Catalonian coast is warm and sunny, with evenings that can be pleasantly cool by the sea. We recommend: light layers for evening events, comfortable shoes for cobblestone streets and garden paths, sun protection (hat, sunscreen, sunglasses), and swimwear if you’ll be joining the catamaran cruise!

Your presence is the greatest gift we could ask for. We will not be creating a registry — please, no gifts. If you are really insistent, you can contribute to our honeymoon fund: https://www.theknot.com/nhiandspencer2026/registry